How To Have Phone Sex, A Guide For First Time Callers

Even men with plenty of sexual experience can be lost when it comes to phone sex.

Phone sex with a partner or friend can be awkward, and there's a skill in heating up the mood to the correct temperature for naughty chat.

The first thing to remember is, you don't have to persuade a woman working on a phone sex line to have phone sex. She's logged in to the system at home because she wants to receive phone calls from men who want it. So, a large part of the problem is solved. She wants to have phone sex!

That said, women, including phone sex girls are human. I know, who knew!

It's easy to dismiss these girls as faceless robots who's function is to blindly give pleasure, but the most important thing to remember if you want great phone sex is that you are phoning up a woman. These are real women with emotions, needs and drives.

We've put together some tips for making great phone sex, out of this world.

Start off slow and playful. You don't have to ease her into it as gently as you would someone who is not experienced at having phone sex, but it only takes seconds of effort to establish a rapport, and you'll both enjoy it better if there's a connection.

Ask her what it's like to work on a phone sex line. Ask her what she finds enjoyable about taking the calls.

Say something similar to, 'I bet that voice gets all your callers excited'

We've set the mood quickly while keeping things light and flirty. You've complimented her sexy voice, without saying 'Your voice makes me hard'.

If you play your cards right, you'll have set a playful mood from the first seconds. Make sure you ask something intimate within the first 2 minutes, the first minute if it feels right.

When was the last time someone gave you an orgasm? How did they do it?

Most callers want to know if their phone sex partner is horny, touching herself, naked etc etc. Lets ask her something that makes her remember pleasure. Ask about the last time she came with someone else. Get her to tell you how they made her cum, what they did to make her feel good. Follow up by talking about where she likes to be touched, kissed and caressed.

Make sure you pay attention here - you'll get some ideas to use later.

She'll have been talking about sexual pleasure, so let her know this is turning you on.

She'll respond better to things like "You are having an effect on me", "You've got me so excited". She'll want more details. Tell her that your clothes are getting too tight. She'll agree that you need to do something about that. 

Most people aren't used to just coming out and asking for what they want directly, especially if it's something sexual. The main thing to remember is that it's different when you call a phone sex line. The girls who answer the phone are not only open minded, they are into it.

If you want to talk about something specific, do. Your wife or girlfriend might react badly if you bring up certain sexual fantasies, but we won't. As you can imagine, we've not only heard it all before, most of us have done it all before too.

If there's something we can do or say to make things better, don't just think to yourself, 'I wish she'd talk about....', or 'I wish she'd make that moaning sound again'.

Ask, 'can you breath and moan for me now, that is so good, you'll finish me off'.

Basically, don't be afraid to be forward. We are more than happy to play along with any of your desires or fetishes.

Don't rush off. If you've put a little effort in and enjoyed the call, chat for a minute after you cum. Tell her that it felt really good, thank her for the release, and if you really enjoyed it, get her extension number and find out when she's available to call.